Young Men in America

“I think that it’s a very scary time for young men in America when you can be guilty of something that you may not be guilty of…..This is a very difficult time.  – DONALD J. TRUMP

I’m a parent of two small boys, ages 4 and 6.  The oldest just started first grade.  Like most small boys, they pay close attention to their father.  I recently quit my chewing tobacco habit because they began to pay closer attention to “Dad’s yucky stuff.”  I regret they have to hear some of my angry rants about whatever is bothering me at a particular time.   I cringe when I cuss in front of them.  I do my best to be an example.

Ultimately, you want your kids to be good people.  This is where Mr. Trump comes in.  Regardless of his politics, he is not a good person.  Here’s the latest exhibit:

I’ve told people before that Donald Trump is the antithesis of what I want my sons to be.  I find myself watching him and worrying that it is rubbing off on me and them.  The solution has been to take what he does and do the opposite:

Has something gone wrong?  Take responsibility for your part of it.  Don’t pass blame.  

Respect all women.

Don’t belittle people.

Don’t toot your own horn.

Here’s Ben Sasse (Republican Senator from Nebraska) on Trump’s latest rant about the Kavanaugh nomination:

“We all know that the president cannot lead us through this time. We know that he’s dispositionally unable to restrain his impulse to divide us. His mockery of Dr. Ford last night in Mississippi was wrong but it doesn’t really surprise anyone, it’s who he is.”

It’s this “disposition” that I’m referring to.  It is who he is.

The scary thing for young men in America right now is not allegations of sexual assault.  It’s that their president is a horrific model of a man.  We’ve come to accept it.  That’s even scarier.

Festival “Park”???

I’ve been very critical of the plans for the new parking deck in downtown Fayetteville that we will not be allowed to use for baseball games and community events.  I won’t re-hash those same arguments.  The bun is in the oven on the deal, and we will be able to hold our elected leaders accountable for its success or failure.

A preliminary report is in from the “parking expert” the City Council hired out of Indianapolis to assess the situation.  Unsurprisingly, the consultant still needs more time to finish his evaluation.  It’s only been five months, after all, so he’s still on the clock.  The final report is coming later.

In the meantime, he says we’ll be fine for games, but we’ll have parking problems during larger events.   He suggests we conduct a marketing campaign and add automated signs and smartphone apps that will tell people where to park.  He also recommends that we adjust our paid parking regulations (charge more money).

The future for downtown parking seems obvious:  less supply + greater demand = paid parking for everyone that can afford it.  We’ve made a commodity out of our downtown public space.  It’s no longer ours, it’s the City’s, and we’ll pay to use it.

A SIMPLE IDEA

I have complained enough.  Here’s a solution that may help:

We don’t need a marketing campaign or smartphone app to get us out of a problem of our own making.  We need more parking spaces next to the stadium, preferably free spaces.  This will encourage more Fayetteville families to attend more games.

On the left is an overhead shot of Festival Park which is adjacent to the new stadium.  On the right is a photo-shopped image of the courthouse with its parking lot covering Festival Park.  This gives you a sense of scale (Festival Park is roughly the size of the courthouse and its back parking lot).

Here’s a crude mock-up from my Iphone of what I could see working:

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I’m not suggesting we pave over festival park.  The point is that the grassy lawn could hold several hundred vehicles within a 5 minute walk of the stadium.  Restrooms are already present for families to use.  Food trucks and vendors could even line the Linear Park walkway to catch people on the way to the game.  If the grass gets damaged, I’m sure Methodist College’s Turf Management students could assist us in keeping up the field for concerts and other events.

In the end, this is just an idea and one of many that will be needed to get around this problem.  I just wish we could park in our 15 million dollar deck, right frigging next to the stadium.

Feel free to share your thoughts.  Maybe our parking consultant from Indianapolis is listening.

Reverse Engineering – Downtown Parking Continued

Early this Spring, this website brought to light the details behind the new parking deck being built next to our baseball stadium in downtown Fayetteville.  Most importantly, I broke the news that the public would not get to use any of the spaces.  Rather, the spaces in our deck were contractually reserved for Prince Charles Holdings, LLC, our new “business partners.”  In short, Fayetteville is paying 15 million dollars for a parking deck its citizens cannot use so that rich investors will build a hotel in downtown Fayetteville.

The news caused a stir.  City Manager Doug Hewitt went on the radio and criticized my findings.  Other interested parties came out of the woodwork in defense of the deal, but they couldn’t kill the story.  The Fayetteville Observer got in the mix and began asking questions.

A few weeks later, in response, the mayor and the city council did what any smart municipal government does when it can’t answer hard questions and needs to buy time:  order a study!

Yes, we’ve hired some “parking professional” to spend our tax dollars to tell us that when you take away 800 parking spaces from a growing downtown and increase demand by building a stadium, your citizens might not have a place to park.  The “big reveal” of the results of the study is Monday night.

Can’t wait.

Fayetteville Florence Update: Cross Creek is Falling; Cape Fear Might be O.K.

They said Florence would be a “Mike Tyson punch” compared to Matthew.   Well, they were wrong.  It was many Mike Tyson punches, for four long days. Southeastern North Carolina woke up today bruised and swollen.  The good news is that we’re catching our breath as the sun peaks out between the clouds.

Cross Creek (the namesake of this blog and the colonial village that eventually turned into Fayetteville) is falling in downtown.

Here’s some additional good news, something you might miss in the coverage:  The Cape Fear River, the subject of an unprecedented, mandatory evacuation is not reaching its predicted levels:

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We’re about four feet below the predicted level.  You can keep up with the rising water using this link.

Pray this good news stays good news.

 

 

 

Trump/Harris – A Marriage Fit for 2018

The McCready-Harris race for North Carolina’s 9th Congressional District is continuing to gain national attention.   It remains one of the closest “toss up” races in this election cycle and has become a bellwether for Democrats’ chances to take back the House of Representatives.  FiveThirtyEight has the race as a literal dead heat:

9thHarris won the primary over incumbent and establishment favorite Robert Pettinger, bucking several of the polls in the process.  I saw Harris’ victory coming from a mile away.  Here’s what I had to say:

US House – District 9 (R):  Mark Harris

I’m going against the polls and insider opinion with this pick.  Although the lines of the district have changed, Harris lost to incumbent Robert Pittenger by a mere 134 votes two years ago.  In an ordinary year, Pittenger’s incumbency would keep him in office.  However, we’re living in a time when being a sitting member of Congress is a bad thing in a Republican primary.  Harris will do better with Trump supporters and evangelicals, and Pittenger will get drained with the rest of the swamp.

Everyone is continuing to bait Dan McCready into attacking Harris’ preaching past.  Here’s the latest:   Sarah Silverman, a comedian and liberal stalwart, weighed in on Twitter this week, linking a video mash-up of Harris’ Greatest Hits:

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